I LOVE YOU!!!

There are people who dont know how to write their name in English, but there are no people who dont know about ........ ....... I LOVE YOU.

There is no doubt that I LOVE YOU or 1 4 3 is the most popular line in the world.

The main intent of this post is not to discuss the greatness of these three words. But, to introspect into our perception of the word Love.

Rahul, a college going guy, proudly says that he wakes up at 6 in the morning only to see his lady love jogging in the Park. Smita, a software engineer, claims that she turned vegetarian to impress her Boy friend. Times are changing. When a responsible father tells his son to wake up early in the morning and do some healthy exercise, he takes in a wrong sense and blames his father for outdated suggestion. If the same words are spelled by his lady-love, they turn sweet to the ears of this guy. It is good that he is listening to the good told by at least one person, but the question to be asked is what is love?

Wake-up by six or before, prepare breakfast that her child likes the most and serve on time, provide everything to the child to go to school or college or office (kids are always small to the eyes of parents). In the afternoon, confirm whether the child has taken lunch or not. Wait till the evening for the child. Again prepare food and serve all that the child needs. This is the routine for any mom in this world. Never in her life-time, she puts any conditions to the child. That is love. Love is not conditional and cannot be. These lines are applicable to the Fathers also.

To love a person is -- caring for a person, irrespective of anything.

Well-wishers - the most often used term after love and friendship. Well-wisher is not the one who sees only for your momentary happiness and not the one who accepts to whatever you do. But, Well-Wisher is the one who tries to correct all your mistakes, persistently. Well-wisher is the one who stays behind you in times of sad and sorrow. He is the one who guides you through the life, correcting your path ( you might not know you are wrong ). Being silent at the time when you require guidance is not the wise quality and he is not a Well-Wisher.

There are two ways, you want the person in your life OR you want the person to be happy in his/her life. The second category is Being a Well-Wisher.

Our parents are always our well-wishers.

Changing for someone is not Love. Its infact not good for you also. As said in BhagavadGita, You should not try to imitate any other person's life style. Try improving your own style, by taking the help of those "Who Really Wish for Your Well-Being".

Fill this world with Love and Wish for the well-being of Everyone you know and you dont know !!!!